Technology and Phones.

In class today, we discussed how technology has affected our ability to interact with other humans and our ability to read facial expressions. Many people in the class had the perspective that because our generation is so used to texting others and using facebook that we wouldn't be able to interact with others as often if our phones and the internet was to be eradicated. I feel the opposite. For example, my roommate lost her phone and she was without a phone for a good 2-3 weeks, but despite her not having a phone to contact people, she was still able to see everyone she wanted to see everyday. It was as if everything in the universe fell into place; she would randomly run into the person she wanted to see in the mailroom, things like that. When we're so busy running around making plans in advance we forget that things just naturally seem to happen that way on their own. During the time when my roommate didn't have a phone and I left my phone in my room for the entire day, we and 2 other friends just happened to randomly stumble upon each other at the same exact spot on campus when we needed to see each other and it worked out perfectly. This may be magical thinking but I think if everybody were to get rid of their phones, then the world would naturally take over and that would happen everywhere.

My question is, "The text states that 'phantasies are… the first preliminary stage… of illness' in the mentally ill; however, if everybody experiences these phantasies, does that mean we all have the capabilities to succumb to mental illness?"

Response #5.

In Skyla's blog, she asked, "Why do human beings only focus on the negatives of people, things, and even art when our flaws are actually what makes us beautiful?"

I think people do that because they don't want to acknowledge the fact that we are all flawed, because having flaws in some aspect or another gives us vulnerability and most people don't like the feeling of being vulnerable and open for attack. Therefore, we cover up these flaws to protect ourselves, and this may happen on either a conscious or a subconscious level. We are always trying to reach a level of happiness or contentment that may be unattainable to some, and because these flaws exist, it just prevents us from reaching that goal of ultimate happiness.

I agree with Skyla, however, that people's flaws are what makes them beautiful. Despite the disdain I hold for most people, I still somehow find them all so beautiful because we all have our flaws that we are trying to hide. It just makes us so much more human and alive when we do acknowledge these flaws and accept them for what they are.

My question is, "Beauty is a universal abstraction that has intrigued us for ages. What do you find beautiful that most other people may not?"